Bachelorette, 34 2009
Kara Herold, Monica Nolan, Alice Herold, and New Day Films
"Kara's mother is obsessed with getting her daughter married. But Kara, a single artist and filmmaker in San Francisco, has her doubts. Through the microcosm of her often hilarious interactions with her mom, Kara Herold's Bachelorette, 34 examines the pressure society puts on women to find 'Mr. Right.'" -- Container. 1 videodisc (33 min.)
MEDIA 10-1988
A changing heart 2002 and 2004
Leigh M Devine, Devinepix (Firm), and Filmakers Library, inc
"A Changing Heart (52 min.) takes an intimate look at how the Japanese, in a mere century, have come to adopt love as a rationale for marriage. By examining the changing roles of women, the shape of families, the impact of World War II, as well as industrialization and the decline of tradition, we can understand how the Japanese, and perhaps even other cultures, could accept new attitudes toward love and marriage. The film looks chronologically at how arranged marriage evolved and then reveals how this change has left people in Japan today, as they face the quest of looking for a partner. The consequences of this evolution turn out to unleash unexpected quandaries to both individuals and society as a whole"--Http://www.globalfilmnetwork.net. 1 videodisc (52 min.)
MEDIA 10-1882
City walls my own private Tehran 2008?
Afsar Sonia Shafie, Martin Frei, Hugofilm (Firm), Schweizer Fernsehen DRS, Schweizerische Radio- und Fernsehgesellschaft, and Filmakers Library, inc
This film looks at three generations of women in an Iranian family and their struggles for survival within marriages founded on Iranian traditions. 1 videodisc (52 min.)
MEDIA 10-1948
Closer to home c2004
Joseph Nobile, Ruben Arthur Nicdao, John Michael Bolger, Madeline Ortaliz, Elibon Film Productions, and Metropolis DVD (Firm)
"Joseph Nobile's Closer to Home weaves a universal, haunting tale of two people inexorably drawn together for vastly different reasons. Dalisay struggles to journey from the Philippine countryside to New York City to marry Dean, a disillusioned ex-merchant marine. She's hoping to buy a cure for her dying sister and, ultimately, a future for her debt-ridden family, while he hopes to escape his disintegrating American family through love and a family of his own. A powerful, controversial film that quietly builds to a shattering collision of aspirations and cultures"--Container. 1 videodisc (125 min.)
MEDIA 10-1640
The fall of womenland c2009
Xiaodan He, Martin Doepner, Nathalie Baroud, Ciné-Frontičre (Firm), and Cinema Guild
A documentary on the unique sexual culture of the Mosuo people, a small minority situated in the southwest of China, and one of the last remaining matriarchal societies in the world. Without a formal marriage contract, the Mosuo traditionally build relationships based on free love and sexual satisfaction ("walking marriages"). But can the sexual liberty and power of the Mosuo women survive as modern Chinese society slowly encroaches their ancestral land? The film explores the present reality for the Mosuo people as well as the dangers that threaten their inherited way of life--Container. 1 videodisc (46 min.) :
MEDIA 10-2413
For the best and for the onion! 2010
Elhadj Magori Sani, Sylviane Chirouze, Adalios (Firm), Dangarama (Firm), and Icarus Films
"Agriculture is key to the local economy in Niger, with Galmi onions prized throughout West Africa. ... Farmer Yaro's daughter Salamatou is betrothed to Adamou. The couple hope to marry soon, but after each harvest - much to his future son-in-law's frustration - Yaro postpones the wedding yet again. He says he wants his daughter to be married with dignity, and that means having enough money to pay for all the expenses tradition demands. As the growing season progresses, Yaro is under increasing pressure to finally set a date for the wedding. Meanwhile, the market price of onions begins a rapid downward slide and the engaged couple come up with a solution to speed their marriage."--Container. 1 videodisc (52 min.) :
MEDIA 10-2430
Freedom to marry c2005
This upbeat, humorous and moving documentary highlights the turn of events on February 12, 2004, when Mayor Gavin Newsom began allowing gay and lesbian couples to marry at San Francisco City Hall. Interviews with seven long-term same-sex couples recount the joy of their relationship and/or marriage and the pain of living in a society that has failed to recognize them as devoted, loving human beings. Contains March 2005 update. 1 videodisc (56 min.)
MEDIA 10-3926
Gay rights, marriage, and the Supreme Court c2003
Ted Koppel and ABC News
"This ABC News program uses the landmark Lawrence v. Texas case and the legalization of gay marriage in Canada to shed light on the future of gay marriage in the U.S. Changing attitudes toward homosexuality in general are addressed as well"--Container. 1 videodisc (21 min.)
MEDIA 10-309
Kira's reason a love story 2003?
Bo Ehrhardt, Ole Christian Madsen, Brigitte Hald, Morten Kaufman, Stine Stengade, Lars Mikkelsen, Nimbus Films, Zentropa Productions (Firm), DRTV Drama, Dogme 95 (Group), and First-Run Features (Firm)
Kira and her husband and two children have a secure and comfortable life until Kira inexplicably develops a psychiatric disorder that eventually commits her to a hospital. On being discharged, Kira tries to return to the normality of her previous life but discovers that Mads has had an affair during her hospitalization. 1 videodisc (94 min.)
MEDIA 10-928
Lesbian grandmothers from Mars c2005
Keith Wilson and Walleye Productions
Story of life partners and grandmothers Carrie & Elisia Ross-Stone and their three-month bicycle trek across the United States. The purpose of the trek was to raise support for gay marriage, and this documentary details the highs and lows they experienced along the way. 1 videodisc (72 min.)
MEDIA 10-1584
Lines of tribe interracial relationships in the 21st century 2011
"Lines of Tribe will look through both ends of the telescope, at once taking a broad view of human history and a narrow view of the experiences of people living today, in the first decade of the 21st century. Through additional insight from people involved in mixed race relationships, as well as children of mixed race parents, the ground breaking film will reveal the human story of people who are undergoing what is perhaps the most significant change in the evolution of the human race "--Container. 1 videodisc (94 min.)
MEDIA 10-3930
Love stories women, men & romance 2011
Richard Broadman, Janice Gray, Cine Research Associates, and Documentary Educational Resources (Firm)
A history of the relationship between men and women beginning in Victorian times and ending with a portrait of today's conflicting society in which old and new values clash, fueling debates over lifestyle and sex roles. 1 videodisc (87 min.):
MEDIA 10-3501
Mariage tardif Late marriage 2002
Dover Kosashvili, Edgard Tenembaum, Marek Rozenbaum, Lior Ashkenazi, and Ronit Elkabetz
"Zaza is a 31-year old Israeli bachelor, handsome and intelligent, and his family wants to see him married. But tradition dictates that Zaza has to choose a young virgin, preferably rich. Zaza's parents, Yasha and Lily drag Zaza to meet potential brides and their families. He plays along with his family, advocates of the suffocating traditions of their Georgian Jewish heritage. . . . What his parents don't know is that Zaza is already in love." IMDB. 1 videodisc (100 min.)
MEDIA 10-168
Marriage equality Byron Rushing and the fight for fairness 2011
"Archival footage and photos are interwoven with contemporary interviews to illuminate the pivotal Massachusetts state constitutional convention on same sex marriage and connecting the lesbian and gay marriage equality movement with the black civil rights movement. At the center of the story is ... Byron Rushing, a man of strong faith and a veteran of the civil rights movement who took the campaign for same sex marriage into African American communities."--Container. 1 videodisc (17 min.)
MEDIA 10-4273
A married couple 2010
A documentary focusing on the relationship between Billy and Antoinette Edwards, an eccentric married couple, also capturing a time in which long-existing gender roles were beginning to dissolve. 1 videodisc (96 min.)
MEDIA 10-5573
The Politics of love in black and white 1993
In this documentary college students talk about interracial relationships, about the racial legacy they have inherited from the fears of past generations and their current experiences and attitudes both pro and con concerning interracial dating and marriage. 1 videocassette (32 min.)
MEDIA 10-3547
Seńora de Nadia Nobody's wife c2003
Lita Stantic, Maria Luisa Bemberg, Luisina Brando, Rodolfo Ranni, Julio Chávez, Gabriela Acher, Susú Pecoraro, China Zorrilla, GEA Cinematografica S.A, Cinemateca (Firm), Condor Media (Firm), and Facets Video (Firm)
Leonor is living the good life: a husband, two kids, a comfortable home. But when she discovers her husband is cheating on her, that life collapses. Leonor flees the world she knows, finds a new job and begins to meet new men. From a distance, she cautiously observes her children. 1 videodisc (98 min.)
MEDIA 10-937
Vendredi soir Friday night c2003
Bruno Pesery, Claire Denis, Valaerie Lemercier, Vincent Lindon, Graegoire Colin, Haelaene Filliaeres, Arena Films (Firm) , France 2 cinaema (Firm), France taelaevision, Studio Canal+, Centre national de la cinaematographie (France), and Wellspring Media
It's Friday night in Paris. Laure has just finished packing her apartment, she is moving in tomorrow with her boyfriend. She leaves to go to dinner with friends and gets stuck in the middle of a mass transit strike which has thrown the city into chaos. As Laure takes in the sights and sounds of the city, a stranger approaches the car. She opens the door to the man, who in a single night, will change her life forever. 1 videodisc (ca. 90 min.)
MEDIA 10-1446
Who gives kisses freely from her lips 2009
Simin Farkhondeh, Shahrazad Productions (Firm), and Newsreel (Firm)
A film using mixing documentary with fiction to tell the story of Salomé, a filmmaker who travels to Iran, determined to make a film on the practice of temporary marriage, known as "sigheh". A taboo subject in Iranian culture, the filmmaker records insightful interviews with couples who are or have been involved in temporary marriage arrangements. The film looks at the complexity of the Shia Islamic institution, specifically the cultural beliefs and contradictions it presents. 1 videodisc (41 min.) :
MEDIA 10-2539
And thereafter c2003
Hosup Lee, Hyun-Ock Im, Filmakers Library, inc, and Docu-Eye Production
Seventy-six year-old Young-Ja Wike is one of 10,000 Korean women who married American G.I.'s after the Korean War. For these women marriage was the only escape from the crushing poverty of post-war Korea. Now "Grandma" lives in south New Jersey with her husband. Never having learned to speak English fluently, she is isolated from the community and her family as well. 1 videocassette (56 min.)
MEDIA 2-6963
Arab diaries: Episode 3: Love & marriage c2000
Deborah Davies, Daoud Kuttab, Ilan Ziv, Tamouz Media, and First Run/Icarus Films
Tells the stories of people confronting obstacles to their personal relationships and happiness in Algeria and Lebanon. 1 videocassette (ca. 26 min.)
MEDIA 2-6728
Baby, it's you 1997
Anne Makepeace
Documents the experiences of the filmmaker and her husband as they attempt to concieve a child through intensive fertility procedures. Explores the reasons why the filmmaker and her siblings chose not to have children until middle age. 1 videocassette (56 min.)
MEDIA 2-5736
A changing heart 2002 and 2004
Leigh M Devine, Devinepix (Firm), and Filmakers Library, inc
"A Changing Heart (52 min.) takes an intimate look at how the Japanese, in a mere century, have come to adopt love as a rationale for marriage. By examining the changing roles of women, the shape of families, the impact of World War II, as well as industrialization and the decline of tradition, we can understand how the Japanese, and perhaps even other cultures, could accept new attitudes toward love and marriage. The film looks chronologically at how arranged marriage evolved and then reveals how this change has left people in Japan today, as they face the quest of looking for a partner. The consequences of this evolution turn out to unleash unexpected quandaries to both individuals and society as a whole"--Http://www.globalfilmnetwork.net. 1 videodisc (52 min.)
MEDIA 10-1882
Child brides 1998
Gill Barnes and Toyin Fani-Koyode
This program travels to the most rural and poverty-stricken regions of Ethiopia to expose the common practice of child brides and the consequences for the young girls who often give birth before they are out of childhood. 1 videocassette (51 min.)
MEDIA 2-5099
Chore wars the battle over who cleans the toilet 1995
Kathy Garneau and Lauren Davis
A discussion on who does the housework in Canadian families and the determination of sex roles and responsibilities. 1 videocassette (48 min.)
MEDIA 2-2896
City walls my own private Tehran 2008?
Afsar Sonia Shafie, Martin Frei, Hugofilm (Firm), Schweizer Fernsehen DRS, Schweizerische Radio- und Fernsehgesellschaft, and Filmakers Library, inc
This film looks at three generations of women in an Iranian family and their struggles for survival within marriages founded on Iranian traditions. 1 videodisc (52 min.) :
MEDIA 10-1948
Clinical dilemmas in marriage the search for equal partnership 1993
Gerry Cullen, Betty Carter, and Stephen Lerner
Examines the institution of marriage, instead of focusing primarily on problems of particular spouses. Excerpts from two marital cases clearly illustrate questions and interventions in the sensitive areas of gender,money and power. 1 videocassette (45 min.)
MEDIA 2-3367
Closer to home c2004
Joseph Nobile, Ruben Arthur Nicdao, John Michael Bolger, Madeline Ortaliz, Elibon Film Productions, and Metropolis DVD (Firm)
"Joseph Nobile's Closer to Home weaves a universal, haunting tale of two people inexorably drawn together for vastly different reasons. Dalisay struggles to journey from the Philippine countryside to New York City to marry Dean, a disillusioned ex-merchant marine. She's hoping to buy a cure for her dying sister and, ultimately, a future for her debt-ridden family, while he hopes to escape his disintegrating American family through love and a family of his own. A powerful, controversial film that quietly builds to a shattering collision of aspirations and cultures"--Container. 1 videodisc (125 min.)
MEDIA 10-1640
Divorce Iranian style 1998
Kim Longinotto, Ziba Mir-Hosseini, and Joanna Rosenthall
Look inside an Iranian divorce court shows how women are treated under Islamic law. 1 videocassette (80 min.)
MEDIA 2-3800
Dreaming rivers 1988
Martina Attille, Corinne Skinner Carter, Stefan Kalipha, Angela Wynter, Sankofa Film & Video, and Women Make Movies (Firm)
After the death of their mother, who emigrated to England from St. Lucia to be with their father, two sisters and a brother of white English and Black Caribbean parentage attempt to fathom her psyche, her homesickness and depression after their father left the family, and their own ambiguous sense of identity and belonging. 1 videocassette (30 min.)
MEDIA 2-7332
Duka's dilemma a visit to Hamar, Southern Ethiopia c2001
Jean Lydall, Kaira Strecker, Westdeutscher Rundfunk, and Documentary Educational Resources (Firm)
Duka is married, the mother of five young children and living in Hamar, Southern Ethiopia. Since her husband married a beautiful, young, second wife, Duka has been in a state of emotional turmoil. Personal and intimate, the film follows this family in crisis. 1 videocassette (87 min.)
MEDIA 2-6429
Gay rights, marriage, and the Supreme Court c2003
Ted Koppel and ABC News
"This ABC News program uses the landmark Lawrence v. Texas case and the legalization of gay marriage in Canada to shed light on the future of gay marriage in the U.S. Changing attitudes toward homosexuality in general are addressed as well"--Container. 1 videodisc (21 min.)
MEDIA 10-309
Gender and relationships male-female differences in love and marriage c2002
Dane Archer, Nonverbal Workshop, University of California (System), and Extension Center for Media and Independent Learning
Explores the differences in the ways that men and women experience the love relationship. Examines ways to make a relationship work better for both men and women. 1 videocassette (44 min.)
MEDIA 2-6496
Hedersmord Honourable murder 1999
Mats Billberg Johansson, Lena Pettersson, Peter Löfgren, and Emil Larsson
Examines the cultural tradition that makes women the talisman of family honor and the practice of atoning for "dishonor" with their blood. Provides an in-depth analysis of Middle East culture that is slowly changing as it overcomes centuries of tradition. 1 videocassette (57 min.)
MEDIA 2-5098
Hmong, one wife is not enough 2002
Noel Lee
Film explores the issue of Hmong polygamy, its origin, why it was practiced and why some still practice it. 1 videocassette (29 min.)
MEDIA 2-2368
Ikwe 1986
Norma Bailey, Geraint Wyn-Daview, Hazel King, Gladys Yang, and Patrick Bruyere
Ikwe, a Canadian Ojibwa woman is given by her tribe in marriage to an ambitious Scots fur trader who does not respect her cultural values. 1 videocassette (57 min.)
MEDIA 2-5823
In het huis van mijn vader In my father's house 1997
Fatima Jebli Ouazzani, Marty De Jong, and Naima Tawila Hamza Savalooni Helia Seddiki
Moroccan filmmaker Fatima Jebli Ouazzani investigates the status accorded women in Islamic marriage customs and the continuing importance of virginity. 1 videocassette (67 min.)
MEDIA 2-5677
The Joy that kills 1988
Tina Rathborne, Sue Jett, Tony Mark, Frances Conroy, Elizabeth Franz, Jeffrey De Munn, Lee Richardson, Rosalind Cash, and Kate Chopin
The story of a woman in the upper class Creole society which dominated New Orleans in the 1870s, a world with a strict code of behavior one of whose strongest tenets required a wife to subordinate her will and her very being to her husband. 1 videocassette (56 min.)
MEDIA 2-476
Kira's reason a love story 2003?
Bo Ehrhardt, Ole Christian Madsen, Brigitte Hald, Morten Kaufman, Stine Stengade, Lars Mikkelsen, Nimbus Films, Zentropa Productions (Firm), DRTV Drama, Dogme 95 (Group), and First-Run Features (Firm)
Kira and her husband and two children have a secure and comfortable life until Kira inexplicably develops a psychiatric disorder that eventually commits her to a hospital. On being discharged, Kira tries to return to the normality of her previous life but discovers that Mads has had an affair during her hospitalization. 1 videodisc (94 min.)
MEDIA 10-928
Lesbian grandmothers from Mars c2005
Keith Wilson and Walleye Productions
Story of life partners and grandmothers Carrie & Elisia Ross-Stone and their three-month bicycle trek across the United States. The purpose of the trek was to raise support for gay marriage, and this documentary details the highs and lows they experienced along the way. 1 videodisc (72 min.)
MEDIA 10-1584
Let's get married 2002
Ben Loeterman, Alex Kotlowitz, WGBH Educational Foundation, and WGBH (Television station : Boston, Mass.)
In this video, correspondent Alex Kotlowitz takes a look at the modern marriage movement. 1 videocassette (60 min.)
MEDIA 2-6803
The lost warriors a bride's story 2001
Ben Ulum
This segment provides an introduction to the Afar by recording two major life events: the arranged marriage of a most reluctant bride and the initiation of a nervous would-be warrior. 1 videocassette (54 min.)
MEDIA 2-1814
Mamadrama the Jewish mother in cinema 2001
Monique Schwarz
"A unique exploration of the maligned mother figure in Jewish twentieth century culture"--Container. 1 videocassette (52 min.)
MEDIA 2-5615
Mariage tardif Late marriage 2002
Dover Kosashvili, Edgard Tenembaum, Marek Rozenbaum, Lior Ashkenazi, and Ronit Elkabetz
"Zaza is a 31-year old Israeli bachelor, handsome and intelligent, and his family wants to see him married. But tradition dictates that Zaza has to choose a young virgin, preferably rich. Zaza's parents, Yasha and Lily drag Zaza to meet potential brides and their families. He plays along with his family, advocates of the suffocating traditions of their Georgian Jewish heritage. . . . What his parents don't know is that Zaza is already in love." IMDB. 1 videodisc (100 min.)
MEDIA 10-168
Marrying 1991
Mischa Scorer, Patrick Lui, and Anthony Quayle
In the small villages of China, tradition dies hard when it comes to marriage. Family plays a critical role in the long-established rituals associated with the ceremony. 1 videocassette (29 min.)
MEDIA 2-2320
Mediating 1991
Peter Montagnon, Patrick Lui, Anthony Quayle, and Mike Chinoy
In this program, a neighborhood mediating committee (there are 800,000 in China) tries to get an estranged husband and wife to stop divorce proceedings--apparently caused by the birth of a female child. 1 videocassette (29 min.)
MEDIA 2-2323
Men are from Mars, women are from Venus advanced relationship skills 1994
John Gray and Houston Winn
John Gray shares his entertaining and valuable insights on the differences between men and women, and how to improve communication and build fulfilling relationships. 1 videocassette (ca. 90 min.)
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Miami Havana 1992
Estela Bravo, Sandy Balfour, Julio Alom, and Corinna Chute
This video discusses how the relationship between the United States and Cuba has affected Cuban families separated by the political conflict. It includes interviews of children from Cuban families and senior citizens in both the United States and Cuba. 1 videocassette (52 min.)
MEDIA 2-3274
Not together now end of a marriage 1974
Alvin Fiering and Miriam Weinstein
Sheldon and Barbara Renan in separate, informal interviews talk about the breakup of their marriage, why they had married, their perceptions of each other, their feelings of separateness and being alone, and their considerations for their three children. Emphasizes one woman's experience of marriage and divorce. 1 videocassette (25 min.)
MEDIA D-78
One wedding and a. . .revolution 2004
Debra Chasnoff, National Center for Lesbian Rights (U.S.), Women's Educational Media, Inc, and New Day Films
February 12, 2004, the mayor of San Francisco instructed city and county officials to allow lesbian and gay couples to marry. Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon, founders of the first lesbian-rights organization and celebrating their 51st anniversary, were invited to be the first couple married. 1 videocassette (19 min.)
MEDIA 2-6886
Pahli & Bee marriage of abuse 2002
Va-Megn Thoj, Sonja Mee Lor, Teng Xiong, and Zong Kang Yang
A dramatization to illustrate an abusive marriage within the Hmong American community which was based on true events. 1 videocassette (29 min.)
MEDIA 2-2362
Sex and marriage 1994, 1983
Kate Porter Lewis
Examines the unique marital customs of different societies around the world. 1 videocassette (VHS) (28 min.)
MEDIA 2-3806
Seńora de Nadia Nobody's wife c2003
Lita Stantic, Maria Luisa Bemberg, Luisina Brando, Rodolfo Ranni, Julio Chávez, Gabriela Acher, Susú Pecoraro, China Zorrilla, GEA Cinematografica S.A, Cinemateca (Firm), Condor Media (Firm), and Facets Video (Firm)
Leonor is living the good life: a husband, two kids, a comfortable home. But when she discovers her husband is cheating on her, that life collapses. Leonor flees the world she knows, finds a new job and begins to meet new men. From a distance, she cautiously observes her children. 1 videodisc (98 min.)
MEDIA 10-937
Vendredi soir Friday night c2003
Bruno Pesery, Claire Denis, Valaerie Lemercier, Vincent Lindon, Graegoire Colin, Haelaene Filliaeres, Arena Films (Firm) , France 2 cinaema (Firm), France taelaevision, Studio Canal+, Centre national de la cinaematographie (France), and Wellspring Media
It's Friday night in Paris. Laure has just finished packing her apartment, she is moving in tomorrow with her boyfriend. She leaves to go to dinner with friends and gets stuck in the middle of a mass transit strike which has thrown the city into chaos. As Laure takes in the sights and sounds of the city, a stranger approaches the car. She opens the door to the man, who in a single night, will change her life forever. 1 videodisc (ca. 90 min.)
MEDIA 10-1446
Women and men unglued marriage and relationaships in the 21st century 2004
Katherine Gilday, National Film Board of Canada, TVOntario, and Films for the Humanities & Sciences (Firm)
This program looks at changing contemporary gender relations and expectation. Focuses on issues such as dating, marriage, money, parenting, romantic love, feminism, and committment. 1 videocassette (87 min.)
MEDIA 2-7018
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